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You’re not the only mother in the world with a blog ..

So this happened. Some “sexuality coach” saw that I started a blog.

A blog for myself and my family, friends etc. A blog where I post what I want to post because it’s my free space. A blog where I post an occasional recipe here and there because people are always asking me how to make this or how to make that. It’s not professional, and it is more so like a diary – incase you were wondering 🙂

I’m not sure if any of you can relate, but it seems like every time you do something for yourself, somebody has something to say about it and put you down.

My website is that of just a tired, young mother, looking for advice, support, friends etc.

I’m not ripping anyone off. I’m not the only mother out there who is tired, exhausted and almost non functioning. I’m not the only momma out there who wants to share an occasional recipe- mainly for her father in law– not that I don’t love these messages!!

We are in the 21st century people!!!!! This is the internet. There are billions of people out there and millions of people who are mothers, and millions who blog, and post recipes.

I could be rude and hit below the belt the same way this person has posted about me… but I won’t. I completely understand her defending her “business” but … HUNTYY YOU SHOULD ACTUALLY DEFEND YOURSELF FROM THE PEOPLE YOU SEEK COMFORT IN ON YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA POSTS.

I really don’t even need to write this post but its content baby! … But I guess she already knew that ! #clapback

I apologize that she is so worried that my little blog (with less than 10 posts) is going to surpass her rants about sex, masturbation, penis shaped candles etc. I’m sorry that my rant on my skin, hair or even my mother in law is content that I have copied from the sexual addictions blog. I apologize that I sent off my website alongside hers to the staff members at #sunnybrook hospital and they said “nothing is the same” & “you’re food looks better” or the lawyer that told me “you have nothing to worry about”. Yes I spoke to a lawyer, to make sure I was doing nothing wrong.

If I was I would’ve publicly apologized but I think it’s time to reclaim my motivation because let’s be honest here. I was excited to blog, I have posts sitting in my drafts just waiting to be published. But after watching the shade, the subtweets, the posts… wouldn’t you lose your motivation? Wouldn’t you begin to belittle your thoughts and ideas?

But why is it that when people feel threatened by success they have to belittle you and put you down. We should be building each other up! The amount of women out there, that are going through the same things, same stress, the same problems… that’s why I’m writing. And just because some “sexuality coach” feels threatened, does not mean I will stop.

I’m sorry.

I’m sorry you think I actually have all the time in the world to sit down and pick apart your libidinous blog site, and make a version of my own. I apologize that I don’t have any provocative photos of myself on my blog and somehow you still feel I’ve ripped you off. I’m also sorry that you feel as though you’re Rachel Ray or Barefoot Contessa, Martha Stewart and can say that I’ve ripped you off.

I guess that would also mean

Talesofatiredmom.com has ripped her off too, or Latoya forever – who is now a famous YouTuber- or scarymommy.com

I will thank her though, my blog’s publicity has skyrocketed. So all I have to say is…

Keep creeping my site booboo😘

Xx

6ix ways to tell if you have a Monster In Law? Find out below

Find out if you need to distance yourself from that toxic bitch that’s unfortunately in your life.

1. She doesn’t respect you She will ignore your every word, every request and every feeling just so she can have her way. She will act like you don’t exist right to your face and behind your back – she will bad mouth the shit outta you. (Or she’ll do it to your face, in Portuguese, thinking you haven’t been picking up on the words)

2. She is controlling She wants to control you and control your life that she has no part of. Unfortunately you put yourself in that situation when you decided to fall in love with her precious spawn. He doesn’t want you to know what she’s been saying so he’ll claim to want no part in the matter. But he’s talking to her and secretly hiding it from you – probably for the sake of the relationship. Gross though

3. She is manipulating She is K N O W N for the guilt trip. She probably invented it. She knows how to manipulate you, your relationship and your family. She’s probably even tried to break up your family 2-3 times (unless she’s planning another one now)

4. She constantly tries to come between your family She feels no ways when it comes to intrusion. She will give her son an ultimatum to choose between the family he came from and the family he created

5. She “helped you out” so everybody needs to know Wether you did her a favour or not, that doesn’t matter. From the moment she did something for you (or your family) she’s been keeping track. She will use it against you – as a guilt trip-or to make you look bad, she will talk about it behind your back, (eventually it will come back to you.. it always does) she will post it on her social media. The bottom line is, that favour? You’ll never forget it because she won’t let you, nor will she let the world forget it.

6. She will not leave you alone EVEN THOUGH she does all these things to you, she still wants you to know that she’s here. She wants you to dread the day she became a part of your life. From spamming messages and phone calls to empty threats. Lemme tell you… she will make you want to rethink your entire plan for her son. Your future, your family. She’s just waiting to say “I won”

If you’re still here I’m sorry. I’m sorry you have to deal with a toxic bitch and I’m even more sorry that she’s apart of your life. Truth be told, it’s time to do you and focus on your family and your goals. Forget about the mamas boy, you can’t raise a man that wasn’t raised to be a man. When the time comes he’ll figure it out. But for now, stay clear of the monster (in-law) under your bed.

Take off the lights and run as fast as you can for cover!